Are you going through a difficult period because you've just been dumped? Would you believe that you aren't the only one going through this sort of situation? Being dumped, especially if it was unexpected, can screw up a person's thought process. They find themselves stuck in, what seems, a never ending cycle of pain. However, you don't have to stay in this sort of situation. You can get over a broken heart and stay out of them and maybe even keep from getting into them in the first place. Not one single person, man or woman, wants to cry over another person that they lost. Yet, it seems that when a breakup occurs, this is exactly what they turn into...a blubbering fool. They think there isn't anything good in life if the person they are in love with isn't beside them. While it may be hard to do much else, there are things you need to do to get over your broken heart.
For starters, keep active. If you keep active, you have little time to wallow in self-pity and loss. If you go with friends to social clubs, you keep yourself from being depressed. You also get your ex to notice that you aren't sitting at home, crying over "spilt milk". It makes them take notice that you aren't crying for them. That makes you look all the more attractive and makes them take a second look at their decision. Did they overreact in breaking up with you?
Now this is the time you are supposed to get over a broken heart. Get up of the couch and put your life back together. It doesn't matter if you want to win back your ex's heart or if you just want to move past the feelings of hurt, nothing helps better to heal a broken heart by staying active and getting together with friends. In time, you may find you have the power to say yes or no to them wanting you back. -Teecee Go
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